LOOK YOUNGER

What can keep looking younger?

Have you ever thought of what can keep you younger naturally?

It’s a simple thing, a Smile.

A smile to everyone or anyone can keep you younger, a smile not only keeps you younger but also it has many benefactors that comes along which can help us move in our daily lives.

Did you know that when you smile you LOOK ATTRACTIVE? When you smile around people you seem friendly and attractive, always people want to talk to you and to have something positive about to crack a laugh or a joke. People around you will always want to know what you are smiling about so they can smile too.

Smiling which makes your attraction can make you to be successful, if you are called for interviews or meetings please try to smile as you talk to the panel even if they want someone who is a serious monger. As you smile you will appear confident and you will feel it, with the confidence you have you are like to be appointed or promoted at work, after all your boss or colleagues will like for who you are and will vice versa have confident in you.

Positivity is the result of smiling; smiling is the greatest medicine of being positive. When you smile it’s hard to think of anything negative, just try it. Even your own body can sense your smile and it will only trigger positive messages all around you. A positive mind is a healthy mind but it all start with a simple thing, a smile. This is a good thing to have as it pro-longs your life too, so you can even smile at anything you like even at your friends. Another thing is if you are positive everything around you will be positive, this is the coolest thing to do.

High Blood Pressure, your smile is the greatest medicine to lower your Blood Pressure as you go on with a positive mind, with your smile you will be able to lower your stress levels. Your face can tell anyone about your state of emotions or unhappy life or sad life no matter how you try to hide it. Stress is one of the biggest High Blood pressure contributors so try to avoid it, take time off and be with friends and laugh as much as you can and wish.

Imagine you are sick or is experiencing pain in your body, a lot of studies have shown that smiling is a natural pain killer. Certain hormones are released when you smile, remember your body normally sent good messages throughout your body, laughing and smiling helps the body boost of some energy to fight off the diseases of any kind.

The immune system works better because your body is not under pressure of any thought, all functions of the immune system are at an advanced level and work well because you are relaxed and feeling relieved and free. It’s like having a yoga tune to the body.

Did you know that when you smile you look younger and super cool, not only that, it reduces your face from aging. Never go a day without smiling, it’s good for you.  

You can change your mood by tricking your body with a smile. For people who have mood swings around, this is the best way to trick your body and feel absolutely changed for the better. Is you are felling very down and out, just find something to smile about. You will beat your bad moods.

When you smile you will change the color of the room to a brighter color or the weather or moods of others and make everything look good, fun, brighter or a happier day.

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>BE HAPPY AND SMILE

  

When the family disapproves

When the family disapproves

We all come from many different cultures, societies and spheres. In some countries like the Arab nations or Asia and Africa at large rules of how to live in a society have to be applied. While the western nations are full of life with freedom, you can mingle, eat, drink, laugh, sleep, work with anybody. It’s a total freedom all you need to do is not to break the rules that everybody agreed upon or what majority agreed upon.

Have you ever heard of a couple who cannot merry because of family differences, because of language, culture, racial, family wealth, religious or color reasons? It so happen that couples are denied the right to be together because of this, family interference is always the pressure on these couple normally they face.

If you haven’t heard of this, then you will be in shock when you will see it happening, couples often face psychological effects as its hard for them why their families cannot accept. Stress changes their lives no matter what age they are at. Often they have to be called and told by the families that it’s either you choose family or you choose your partner. They will always seek help and advice from friends or other relatives who they can trust, often even their friends try hard to talk about it with the families.

Is most cultures age and personality are most important and if the person have already kids in case of a female. In many African countries a woman cannot be married to a younger man as it is regarded that the man is the herd of the house and mostly the bread winner or the provider of most things, therefore a man must be older than his spouse and that the he must be respected by the wife.

Personality is a concern, this is most common to every family, they will often want to know what your partner is doing for a living, the dressing code around the family, how he respects other people, is he alcoholic, beating people, had he committed a crime in his life or arrested for stealing something. All whatever surrounds the person no matter what or how the person says they have changed for the better, family will not approve.

Imagine your daughter getting married to O. J. Simpson. it will feel like America will not forgive you or they will hate you for life. the family will always feel that it’s their greatest mistake of their lives.

Parents always feel like they are the protector and the responsible people of their children when their children are growing, they tend to have an oversight that certain things are not for them as their children are growing and tend to have partners for comfort and possible marriage in the future. Parents can be advisors and can provide guidance but they must know and understand that it is the right of an individual to choose who they want to spend the rest of their lives with and have an opportunity to get married.

      

    

Zimbabwe

Let people be free

Some African leaders who should be and deserve to be respected are not doing what they are supposed to be doing, what is America doing also is not good. the people who are being punished are the poor people particularly the youth. 

PROSTITUTION

PROSTITUTION       

WHAT DOES THE WORD PROSTITUTION MEANS?

This word in practice really means much more that it is in BLACK and WHITE printings, if you give it to people who practice it to give an explanation, they will give you a different definition that is a bit entrepreneurial to it than an ordinary chief executive officer of a multimillion dollar company. Whatever definition you get or have, in practice there is only one meaning BUSINESS.

The choice of going into prostitution is not a willing or a career choice to make, many government have implemented many laws to make prostitution unlawful and unaccepted in society. For people who practice it they have to practice it cautiously and in hiding and there is always no protection from any dangers that may arise in association with this business.

There are so many different kinds of risks and dangers that are associated with this business, some are raped, killed, beaten, abuse, abducted for free service, the risk of contracting HIV/AIDS or any sexual transmitted disease or unwanted pregnancies leading to baby dumping and killings. It is such a business with dirty activities all round the clock but why do some people engage into such activities?

Many statistics have shown that majority of people who take on prostitution are woman, the percentages of men are low but why woman most? Is it because of low customers availability or culture?

In many countries whether they have laws for or against prostitution, it all boils down to the economic situations, even the best well known economies have prostitution. In most cases it has now been modernized. You will find guest houses, hotels, motels or restaurants offered to customers, IS THIS THE SUPPORT OF PROSTITUTION? Some business are now online any person can order a prostitute, they advertise all shapes, sizes, color or race, the websites are developed in such an attractive and well up to date modern pages making some people behind the business get huge profits.

As it is said already economic situations drive many people into such dirty business, they don’t get into this kind of business by choice, they are forced either by family pressure to make money for the family, friends;s pressure, unemployment or have a low paid jobs, being kidnapped and forced to make money for PIMPs or others. It is never an easy choice with nowhere to turn to many young and confused girls who may have been doctors, nurses, business woman, politicians, teachers, the list goes on and on turn to what can be easier for them to get the money to meet their daily needs. It si challenging and sociologically, scycologically, physically challenging but what choice is there as many of these girls end up being slaves of this industry and addicted to the money making skim.

It’s a bad and sad issue, some government have legalized prostitution in hope of protecting the people in the industry but this guaranties no protection on the physical harm, terror, physical effect, scycology, social life style, it’s just a way of making the business BOOM and have more markets to make the industry moving and growing as many victims are suffering.

Imagine your own daughter whom you have so much hopes for of one being some one you could proud of and being married to the man she ever dreamed of and have the life you have ever imagined and a good future but even though you are now living a good life now unfortunately you die and leave her alone in a big world full of so many evils and challenges and no one to turn to when she really needs you while you watch as you are in heaven. She ends up taking a wrong turn and she ends up being used and working as a prostitute on the streets, surrounded by murderers, rapists, thieves or all sorts of evil. Its really painful.

Imagine how many people out there are not having parents or don’t know who their father is ( imagine ( imagine how important for a son in his life to have a father in his up bringing ) all these are just some of the sorrow part of it but they are a whole lot of many of them,

Some governments, non-governments organizations, unions, organizations, business members, culture, and churches as the leading figures  have come up against prostitution as it is against their back grounds and unaccepted for woman or man to sell their body and make money out of it. Yes some companies have been applauded for their job well done in mitigating this, it is a good thing to do. 

   

MAN AND REVOLUTION

WHITE MAN IN AFRICAN TWENTIETH CENTURY

The colonial times of Africa were bad for all black African people in those times and for some white people who were against how black treatment was, the evil of money and greed go its hand to many whites people who wanted to be rich and to be recognized by that time. It was an era of their own but little did they know or sense the future how it will look like and how it will shape.

It was an era of free or cheap gold, silver, iron or whatever minerals, animals for meat or tasks from specific animals like elephants and rhino, slavery mainly black people where taken to work for many white people for free. Africa was the paradise for many business people to come to and collect to and go do business abroad, for space some white people went to Africa and stayed there, it was a complete paradise for many white people by that time as it was. Many African head man, Chief, kings or queens were tricked into selling their land, due to how the many African perceived to what they were given and highly valued the small simple things they were given they gave up land and some valuable minerals to the white people.  

It was a tough life with no rights or say, a person has to do whatever he or she is told without refusal whether a person like it or not, whether sick or not, its was hush and un bearable, a life a person could live with out proper food or water or taking a shower, it is unbelievable how the greed of money and for riches deceived many white people into thinking that black people where not people at all, many white people who were in business  and those who had inspirations to become business people they  flown to Africa for a better economic boost mostly by ships.   

A white person by that time was a valuable and feared person because of the capabilities they had shown to poor black people. As years went by black  people began to learn and speak the white people languages, this begun so because most black people were working on th white people’s premises or farms so there had to be some communication for a slave to understand instructions given to him. Good white Samaritans taught many black people a number of subjects, this happened in churches, schools and other places like at their homes. Some White Missionaries and church leaders also travelled to many various African places to spread the word  of god and at the same time some begun to open schools to teach many young black people to read and write, which was a good thing.

As many years role by evolution in thinking and education, many black people across the world became recognized. Many were educated in the countries where many of their ancestors who never felt the filling of freedom and to have many rights where enslaved, they came home to fight again for the freedom of their countries against some rulers who still had grab of their ancestral people, it was bad and bitter as many lives were lost in the struggle. This contributed hate ret by many black communities towards white people even after the liberation struggle even though not all white people were involved in the mass massacres and rebellious.

The thin line between  black people and white people is a very deadly one, all this due to the cychological history between the  two. In many countries it’s an  open secret meaning you can see it happening but you are not or can say about it because you will become the victim of the open secrete. Many leaders across the globe have been preaching heavly against racial discriminations but sometimes they even themselves do not practice what they preach because they are just the for the post or position they have been wheel chaired to. As there is no one who is perfect any person would do whatever they are asked to or whatever they had to do to keep those positions they have. For many of these facts many people do not get jobs because of race, most people get sentenced in jail unnecessary, put on death raw or life imprisonment, some people fail to achieve their goals because of race. It’s hard.

In many government in some countries many whites are not working for government not because they are not qualified or over qualified but smilingly they are not felt welcome or their applications are thrown away when they reach H.R departments, hate rate is cychologicaly still in many people. in the private sector where mainly whites are heavily armed  +and working for affects many black people to work for particularly in Africa.

Many white people in Africa are not comfortably settled as they are constantly watching what’s next for them when their particular government in the country they live in takes a decision, some government don’t even recognize or consider white poverty or unemployment these are just some of the  facts that have pushed many white people from voting when it’s time for elections.

Now what can be done with all this? It is the responsibility and duty of every nation or government to run reconciliation programs, government employment agencies or commissions should ensure a balance in employing all kinds of races or gender to strike a good balance.

WOMAN AND THE WORLD

Woman in governance perception

In many countries woman are regarded as the real bread winners of the families as the male counter species are regarded just as the head of the family or the commander in chief. In most developing nations by tradition man can marry as many woman as they wish, it is a symbol of wealth, power and should be respected. Woman’s rights are non the less not recognized in the marriage as they are the slaves to the man, they have to do whatever they are told by the man or else it’s a hush punishment that will affect her emotionally, mentally, physical or in any way.

Many of these woman are married at an early age its can be from nine years to whatever age for as long as they can bear children for their man or the heard oh the house. Most of it is based on poverty, poor government managements, population density, economic headships, culture, ethics and norms. The poor family would push their young daughter into marriage for the sake of hoping that their daughter will bring something for them in return or that the man is rich and the lobola might be high when they go for negotiations.

The daughter has no right to refuse to go or else she will be burned from the family or casted away from the family and they may say she is witched, the gods casted a spell on her and should be chased away from the family to go to the bush and no one should help her or else the person who will help her will he/her be casted a bad spell by the gods too and will have no lunch or his or her blessings will be taken by the gods. There are a number of unfounded reasons that the family will come up with for her to be married if she refuses she will be chased from her family to follow her husband

In many countries woman may have rights but in practice they don’t its just a hear say blab blab lblab blab a rights here and there, with big growing populations and the slums are also growing the employment issue becomes smaller getting a job is tough and hard. Often jobs that are found pay less than a U$1 per day or per week or per month, it just depend what kind or type of a job the person get, often these jobs are not guaranteed for a very long period of time the person can be fired at any time or told that there is no job any more so you must leave.

ONCE THE WOMAN IS IN MARRIAGE THERE IS NO WAY OUT, she will be in there until the husband does not like her or tell her to leave for whatever reasons. If the husband dies she will be inherited by other family members of the late husband just like a property and they have no rights to property of the diseased husband or any claim what so ever freedom of any kind, not even in her dreams. They are supposed to bear as many kids as the man wish, imagine in the U.S a woman can live without a kid or only one but in many slum countries or for example in Africa a woman can go up to fifteen or seventeen. This kind of bearing kids gives her too much back pain punishments but for her husband it is recognized as one of her duties in marriage. Often they are not allowed to refuse or talk back against their husbands or parents as it is recognized as a taboo.

When a woman only bears girls she will not be recognized and respected  as the other woman who has boys, this is given a reason that boys will grow up and feed the family but girls will just be the receivers and not the givers. So boys are given much priority than girls. In some other cultures, beliefs or norms the woman who only bears girls should be stoned or to be killed as they are a sign of a curse and bad luck. Girls are always considered weak and have no purpose apart for giving birth to kids, so boys are given priority and importance.

Some cultural or traditional stuff should be stopped when they are posing danger to our society, its for the best we don’t need to continue with them as they will lead us to know where but additional problems that will hurt and hamper our communities. An educated society is a better society as they will only focus on things that will positively lead them to a better life. In rural areas of any society is where most of the unwelcome practices are still being practiced and done in the end they stay the way they are and theycan’t move forward to the next level of livelihood.

Am glad many African countries most especially in the Southern Africa ladies are recognized as peoples with rights, they can work, talk on their behalf participate in their political part of their own choice and they are highly recognized as a success for a lady to hold or to be appointed in a bigger position like the current newly appointed African Union Chairperson. The appointment of her in office has given a bigger boost for African woman and a boost of recognition for woman worldwide.

Woman should be recognized for their role in the family they play, they are regarded as the back born of the family in many modern families, you will find that if there is no wife in the house absolutely things will not go according to how they are supposed to be, man will not survive without a woman in the house. Family wise woman are the glue to a family, they hold together the family.

BURNING OF LOBOLA

Woman should be respected equally they should respect themselves for them to earn respect they deserve in society. Should LOBOLA be dissolved and not recognized yes, its should be dissolved, WHY? LOBOLA is like selling a human being and it fuels poor families to get their young daughters full of dreams married to older man who will abuse them as they will repeatedly say they paid LOBOLA or many cattle to have them so mistakes have no room in their marriage.

LOBOLA is never good it should be labeled illegal, its an indirect way of selling young potential girls who have a bright future, who can doctors, nurses, teachers, engineers or be in any kind of profession of their choice. It limits the girls ability to have choices and to choose a life they really prefer.  It also reduces the country as a whole to function as a whole as people who are supposed to help are not there but they are locked up in houses of marriage that has no does of freedom.

LOBOLA is like buying love if you go in Southern Africa, the thing of forced marriage is over there out for a man to marry he has to pay an amount of lobola in a form of money or cattle or chickens or goats or sheep’s or any kind depending on agreements between families. LOBOLA was started long time in the 15 centuries, this was done so in the sense that for a father or his family to get something because the father raised her daughter, she is either well raised or the family is rich, she is either educated, or the family is poor, she is beautiful or the pain the daughter she will have to endear during labor it can be life threatening, it can be that she is a hard worker as she was raised. All these are the kinds of things that came into play and they are still considered during lobola negotiations.  Now because it took time and often costly in raising the daughter now the parents wants at list something as a token of appreciation or a payment that will compensate them on their burden. Children should be considered as a gift from god and how you will raise them it has no connection on how you want the person who will marry them to pay for them………….. LOBOLA also has some from for human trafficking to it but this one is within the families where the girls are raised and have no choice but to follow suit like it or not.

HOW CAN YOU SALE YOUR OWN DAUGHTER?

The world needs both man and woman to hold it together are a glue and to create a better society, a freedom society is necessary for everybody to proactively practice positivity and have better answers to a better society that everyone needs. They way we raise our kids is the answer to our future as we live, because a kid who is born among thieves will be a professional thief as things and technology changes, the technology of how to steal also changes on a one step feather than the technology itself.

The people who are voted in power positions should not live on the positions for luxury, people nowadays are hungry, they want food on the table for their families. Leaders must be warned that the world needs the better lives and the time for laziness sitting like a king is over, they will be booted out like what happened in Tunisia, Libya, Egypt and Syria. If they can’t deliver on what they promised during election campaigns then they have failed and they must be willingly step down as it supposed to be.